i am an onion....

after my entry on human beings....someone left a comment...this annoymous person said that i am like an onion....and if my "friends" know that i actually bitch about them in my blog... the way this person left his/her comment is interesting to me...it seemed that he/she is trying to be nice but yet sarcastic....could he/she be one of the people i have bitched about?? *think think*

BUT...i think the description that i am an onion is very very very very apt...

(1) an onion has many layers...so do i!!! i strongly believe that i have many faces... people might have seen a common front which i have always protrayed...but there are also many different faces which i only show to certain people...

(2) an onion can make you cry if you are unable to handle it... i think at times..i can be quite mean and critical..and i could make people upset or angry....

(3) but if you know how to handle an onion....it is quite a delicious and useful food...well, if people can accept who i am and know how to "manage" me...i think i am not such a bad person afterall...*grins* but then again...that's just a personal comment...anyone can beg to differ...

i get to find out that one of my friend was actually upset over my entry.....she was upset that i think she's a poser...actually i dont really mean that....seriously...it's like...imagine i was talking to this person about relationship and this person said that he/she had never been in a relationship and i go "You're such a loser!" well....when i said that...i DO NOT really mean he/she is a loser....it's like a mmm..how should i put it....passing remark? joke? i thought she knew me well enough to know that i am fooling around and have always been sarcastic... guess i was wrong..should have been more sensitive... anyway...to that friend...if you are still reading my blog... "I'm sorry...didnt mean to hurt you...."

mmm...someone commented that i am too judgemental....that i tend to judge people too easily...but i would rather put it this way....impressions are formed within my head when i meet people ...the comments that i have put forth are just personal opinions...opinions or impressions which i have gathered from sight or hearing...from my encounters with the other party... i may be wrong....i may be right...these are just my personal perceptions...i did not insist that i am right....not like a judge...a judge has the final say in the court...i dont...i'm like a lawyer....i give what i have...my evidences, my guesses, my predictions, etc for the jury to decide if i am right or wrong and for the judge to pass his final statment...maybe i should have keep my bloody mouth shut and keep all these to myself...but what's wrong with a little bitching? I'm sure EVERYONE bitch about EVERYONE...maybe i shouldn't have share my bitching with others *smilez*