it's so over!

recently, i am the aunt agony for 3 of my guy friends...interestingly, all 3 have unique problems but my advice to them is the same... " life goes on, so get on with your life "....haha! yes, maybe im lazy and insincere..but honestly, what do you expect me to say? to me, relationship problems can only be solved the the creators of the problem..not the bystander because the bystander always see things in a different light...

anyway, for the first friend...basically, it's just a case of him not able to get over his ex-girlfriend...no idea why he loves her so much..and no idea why he always misses her and everything..it's just him and her..he simply cant get over her..maybe because they are really suited for each other except for the fact that she is a time quantity person while he's a time quality person...she wants to spend every single minute of ther life with him but he wants to spend time with his "gay" friends...so that's the main issue...well, i tend to agree with my friend as i think it can get really boring to be stuck to the same person for a long time, no matter how much you love him/her...so am not sure how they are going to resolve this issue but i told my friend this: " you will NEVER get back to her...life goes on, so get on with your life...dont forget her...always remember her and give her a special place in your heart...but you cant just stop because of her..." and he always tell me that i'm right and blah blah..but if i dont remember wrongly, it's been months since he told me he misses her...haha!

then the 2nd friend is sooo in love with his ex...they've only been togther for like 2 months but yet he cannot get over his ex at all...one minute, he's telling me that he's really pissed, the next minute he's telling me that he's angry, the next minute he's sad, the next he misses his ex...it was kinda difficult to deal with as i have no idea what to say but " life goes on, so get on with your life "....haha! and then this friend is kinda funny..he would be telling me about his ex..and the next moment, he would update me that he just hit on a cuite..emotional roller coaster is definitely not the way to get out of a relationship! it hurts your mentally and emotionally..but then again, maybe it's his way of getting out..so all i did was listen...which i think is more than enough... and he better stop whining if not i'm so going to "kill" him...

the final friend is the most dramatic of all...mainly because his ex-gf is quite dramatic to start with but then again, it's way tooo much...she created quite a big thing out of everything and i dont know what to say...but then again, knowing her, i know she would make a big fuss..haha! basically i think my friend's just getting tired of all her dramas and suspicions...maybe she had some bad experiences or whatever..but then again, this is not my problem..just that i get a little sick of hearing the same story again when my friend's talking to me....haha and i know he knows that im bored and had nothing else to say...anyway, i would believe that it's not the other girl's fault although i would say that girl might be the catalyst but well, if the ex-gf is not a pain in the arse, my friend would not have whatever i guess...but then again, this is not exacly my problem...i am only hearing one side of the story and all i can say is " life goes on, so get on with your life "....to both my friend and his ex-gf..

gosh! all these sad stories are giving me depression...hahaha!