was talking to this friend of mine. actually am not sure if i can call him a friend. but anyhow, it doesnt matter. so this friend and i was just chatting. we were talking in general about people who play the field and about people who are super-duper committed.
i personally respect the players as i feel that they have the guts to play and the guts to admit that they are players. at the very least, they never give anyone false hopes and lead them on to think that there will be happily everafter. on the other hand, i also respect the super-duper committed kinds. i salute them for being so committed that they can do anything for the other half. it takes a lot a lot a lot of effort and energy to do that and not everyone has that kind of energy. but that doesnt mean i despise the rest. generally i guess it depends.
So..this is the conversation:
me: so would you rather have a committed relationship or would you rather play the field?
he: i want to be neither. i want to have committed sex relationship.
me: huh? what do you mean by that?
he: well, i dont want to bear the commitments of being a boyfriend but i want to have a sexual relationship with just one partner.
me: eh you mean a sex buddy?
he: kinda but not really. i dont want my sex buddy to sleep around though.
me: huh? what kind of relationship is this? you want to have sex relationship with this girl but yet you dont want to bear any responsibility and yet you dont allow her to sleep around. WTF. isnt that selfish?
he: well, sorry but i am kinda racist. can you imagine screwing someone who has just been screwed by an indian? maybe an ang-moh is still alright, but not an indian.
me: WHAT? you mean you will never screw someone who has been dating an indian? and you would only date a chinese?
he: yup! correct!
me: WTF. that is soooo racist and soooo selfish. you cannot promise the girl anything but yet you expect the girl to be with you ONLY. and you think you're superior to other races just because you're chinese? who do you think you are?
he: well, i have no lack of girls if i want to sleep around. so the fact that im committed to just one girl sexually, that's quite a thing already.
me: seriously, good luck.
to be honest, im very disgusted by his thinking and all. how can anyone be sooo racist and so selfish? seriously. *puke*
i personally respect the players as i feel that they have the guts to play and the guts to admit that they are players. at the very least, they never give anyone false hopes and lead them on to think that there will be happily everafter. on the other hand, i also respect the super-duper committed kinds. i salute them for being so committed that they can do anything for the other half. it takes a lot a lot a lot of effort and energy to do that and not everyone has that kind of energy. but that doesnt mean i despise the rest. generally i guess it depends.
So..this is the conversation:
me: so would you rather have a committed relationship or would you rather play the field?
he: i want to be neither. i want to have committed sex relationship.
me: huh? what do you mean by that?
he: well, i dont want to bear the commitments of being a boyfriend but i want to have a sexual relationship with just one partner.
me: eh you mean a sex buddy?
he: kinda but not really. i dont want my sex buddy to sleep around though.
me: huh? what kind of relationship is this? you want to have sex relationship with this girl but yet you dont want to bear any responsibility and yet you dont allow her to sleep around. WTF. isnt that selfish?
he: well, sorry but i am kinda racist. can you imagine screwing someone who has just been screwed by an indian? maybe an ang-moh is still alright, but not an indian.
me: WHAT? you mean you will never screw someone who has been dating an indian? and you would only date a chinese?
he: yup! correct!
me: WTF. that is soooo racist and soooo selfish. you cannot promise the girl anything but yet you expect the girl to be with you ONLY. and you think you're superior to other races just because you're chinese? who do you think you are?
he: well, i have no lack of girls if i want to sleep around. so the fact that im committed to just one girl sexually, that's quite a thing already.
me: seriously, good luck.
to be honest, im very disgusted by his thinking and all. how can anyone be sooo racist and so selfish? seriously. *puke*
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