today is 07/07/07..and according to news report...777 couples are getting married today..wow..it seems that this date is really lucky...the number 7 seems to be the number to have in a date...haha! i have a 7 in my birthday..haha anyhow, although it's 07/07/07, funnily i didnt have any wedding invitation...even my brother who is 1 year younger than me has...actually am not sure if it's good or bad...but some friends have commented that it's good because it's good for the pocket and i'm still not that old to be in the stage where friends are getting hitched every month..HAHA!
anyway, this year seems to be the year of marriage, pregnancy and breakups...just this year alone..i have about 7 weddings dinners to attend..and everyone's in office is getting pregnant...and many of my friends are facing breakups...seriously, i think this is the year where relationships come and go...anyway talking about breakup, one of my good friend just broke up with his girlfriend...and the reason why i'm writing this is because i want to tell his ex-girlfriend what a bitch she is...
well, basically, i dont like his ex-girlfriend AT ALL..dont ask me why..but somehow, i just dont feel good about her... she just doesnt give me the good vibes and so for the longest time, i've been asking my friend to break up with her..but he refused..saying that she's good, blah blah blah blah...anyhow, it was a long-d relationship for them as my friend is in USA for the past 4 years for his studies and the girl is here working...and seriously, i think my friend has put in a lot of effort to maintain this relationship..but this stupid girl is just full of shit...she's forever possessive, unreasonable, terrible, horrible and whatsoever!!! even my friend's parents didnt like her AT ALL...well, i must admit that i am a bad influence for my friend because he did go into a fling because i encouraged him to do so..haha! but hey, if the ex-girlfriend is not a bitch, would i have encouraged her? okay okay, it's my fault...period. anyhow, she found out because she DIDNT respect my friend's privacy and hacked into his email..what a bitch! why would she do that? ignorance is a bliss girl...and because of this, she started to hate me which i have no worries about as i dont really like her..and then she told my friend of 10 years to "disown" me..haha! who does she think she is??? even my friend's parents like me much much more than her...so she can jolly well just stand on the outside and rot...everyone's on MY side, girl...and now she broke up with him, she started to say very mean things to him..asking him to fuck me, to flirt with me, to whatever with me...what a thing to say! and she said stuffs like she felt dirty when with him, she hopes that his dick will rot and all...blah blah blah...seriously, this is being sooo childish..i mean being his ex-girlfriend, she should know that my friend is a ladies-man....80% of his friends are female and these females are really just friends..if she herself cannot get over the fact that her man is popular with girls....than fuck it..go get a life and get a man who only talks to men..and hopefully, he turns out to be gay..haha!
well..apparently, according to my friend..she reads this..which is why i wrote about this so that she can whatever...haha! but anyhow, i think she is trying to tell my friend that i ay not be a good friend and try to sow discord between me and friend about my entry on the US trip that his graudation is of secondary purpose...which i have already told him myself and have complained non-stop in front of him..haha!! so sorry girl, your "mission" failed..and it failed terribly!!!!!!!
okay...now i sound like a bitch myself..hahaha but it's alright..maybe i am...but what to do? like what eminem said..i am what i am... *smilez*
6 comments:
I like this entry very, very much. Sometimes, some girls just don't understand.
Speechless!
You know, I was never ever once mean to you but you were always bitching with Ian about me. Given I'm not perfect but who is? I may always be checking his mails and stuff but that's cos he always lies to me. Which girl can stand her BF ALWAYS lying to her? Can you? You may think I'm a bitch cos Ian mostly puts me in a very bad light. I may be vicious with my words but that's cos I was so very hurt by his infidelity. I don't dislike someone until they dislike me. Actually Ian begged me to stay with him and we did patch things back but now that I've read your blog which was meant for me, I've decided to end things with him. I know you're very happy that we break up. I hope Ian is happy. I just wanna say that I never meant to ask Ian to 'disown' you. Just that YOU were always encouraging him to do bad things. You always sprout your christian beliefs, do you think God agrees with your behaviour? I know I have no right to say all these but I just have to say my piece. Thanks for enlightening me about Ian, about his lies once again. I know you're happy now. That's all that matters.
Zhixiang: you mean the part about guys being a ladies' man right? haha!
Kel: *silence*
Annoymous: you know..you're not the only GF that i bitch about with Ian..i bitch with him on EVERY GF that he has...and besides, i know you're not mean to me...but when Ian told me all the things that you've done and said, it didnt tell me that you're a good GF..maybe i didnt hear your side of the story so i was wrong...and seriously, i never once said i'm a good christian..i only said how good God was to me despite me being so horrible, terrible and bitchy...i truly agree with you that no girls can take a bf that always lie to him..but in the first place, why dont you just trust him? sometimes, ignorance is bliss..come to think of it..i didnt know he's going to beg you to stay with him...and yes, you're right that i encouraged him to do bad things..but hey, he didnt really commit infidelity...he only flirted with the girl..i told him to try and see if the other girl is more suitable..but ultimately, he chose you..doesnt that mean that he really loves you? i mean seriously, you 2 are not married and he's not bound..so there's no infidelity...anyhow, my happiness it not dependent on whether you're the gf or not...if he still choose to be with you...well, i'll respect that..but it's just that i didnt get very good vibes about you...and so i just told him my piece...the ultimate decision is up to him..anyhow, thanks for telling me your piece..it's a good change to hear from the other side...dont think you're happy now...
How do you trust someone who lied to you time and again? When you thought you had just begin to trust again, you found out that he lied to you again. Under these circumstances, how do you learn to trust? I know ignorance is bliss but I really don't wanna be an ignorant fool. I know we are not married but 2-timing is still an act of infidelity which hurts me especially after I've given him so many chances. He did not just flirt with the girl, ask him if you want. Initially I was rather hurt by your comments because you really don't know me, except through what he said. At least, I hope the air is clearer now. We did not break up in the end. It may sound wierd but I hope we can 'coexist' peacefully. I just hope you can encourage him to do the right things instead. Thanks for your reply. Lastly, I'm sorry.
annoymous:
hey hey..didnt expect you to reply so fast..oh well, i guess you're right..when one has betrayed your trust, somehow it's not easy to trust..and being ignorant doesnt mean you're a fool! he 2-timed? well, from what i know..the girl is well-aware of you and so i thought they were just trying out..so i guess different standards with regards to 2-timing..anyhow, am not going to ask what he did as i'm not really that interested..haha! well, dont say until " let's hope we can co-exist" rather cheesy...like i have said, if he choose to be with you then i'll respect that..i mean i'm just his friend and you might end up his wife and definitely you're more important..so i just hope both of you can come to an understanding... :) and i'll try to encourage him to do the right thing..but i can only try...no guarantee..because right and wrong is also relative right? anyhow, dont be sorry...no one's right and wrong..actually it seems like i'm in the wrong more than you are..but hey, am not admitting that i'm wrong! hahaha..well, am not surpised that you 2 are together again..i guess i have to watch Harry Potter without Ian.. :P
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